Posted on
February 2, 2025
by
Janet Helm
The Importance of Planning for a Safe and Happy Future
Many prefer the comfort and familiarity of their own home over the thought of moving. While aging in place may sound like the ideal solution, it requires careful planning and thoughtful consideration to ensure it is both a safe and fulfilling option. There’s a lot more to consider if you want to make this work in the long term. Aging successfully in place is more than just staying in the same house—it’s about continuing to live safely, and comfortably in an environment you know well and love. It involves navigating health changes, making your home more accessible, and finding the right support system.
Take, for example, my dad. He is aging successfully in place, with the support of live-in help and community healthcare resources. It’s not always easy, and it requires monitoring, adjustments, and a solid plan in place. He’s fortunate to still be in great physical and mental health—he goes to the gym daily and plays golf when the weather permits.
What Does It Take to Age in Place? Aging in place isn’t something you can simply set up and forget. It requires careful planning and flexibility in several areas, all of which need to be addressed to make aging in place work. Can the home be modified? The home may require modifications, in-home healthcare services, or even hiring extra help for daily chores, meals, bathing, dressing, medicine management and home maintenance.
Can your or your parents’ home be adapted to meet the changing needs as time goes on? The good news is that many homes can be modified with a bit of creativity. I helped a couple who initially thought they would have to move out of their family home due to mobility issues. After meeting with them and learning about their family support system nearby, we came up with a plan to make it work. Working with a professional contractor, they transformed a large den into a primary suite on the main floor, moved the washer and dryer upstairs for easier access, and replaced the bathtub with a walk-in shower to prevent falls. They also had grab bars installed throughout the home to help with mobility and reduce fall risks. They can now live on one level, live in the home they love and enjoy their greenbelt private view. With family living just across the street, they had excellent support for trips to the grocery store, doctor’s appointments, and other errands. While they knew they would need to hire professionals, like gardeners or handy people for odd jobs in the future, these modifications allowed them to extend their plan to stay in their home for several more years. Their story is a good example of how aging in place can work if you have the right support system, modifications, and plan in place. If your home can be adapted to meet your needs, aging in place may be entirely possible. It’s also a good example of being proactive and asking for help before the help is needed. Proactive decisions are always better than reactive decisions.
It’s also worth considering whether your home is within walking distance of amenities like grocery stores, doctors’ offices, or libraries. Will stores deliver to your area? How far is a hospital or doctor? Many of my clients move to be closer to such conveniences. This can be a significant factor when deciding if aging in place is practical.
One of the most important aspects of aging in place is having a strong support system. Whether it’s help with transportation, household tasks, medication management, or simply emotional support, having people you can rely on is essential. Knowing that family members live nearby or are willing to help makes a world of difference in managing the challenges of aging in place. When family can’t help or live far away, professional support can be a game-changer. In-home care companies will make personalized care plans to fit your or your loved ones’ specific needs. These care services might include help with daily activities like meal preparation, cleaning, companionship or personal care. The cost will depend on the level of care. Every individual’s situation is different. Some also offer respite care to family caretakers as well!
I’m happy to introduce you directly to like minded in home care professionals. Call me at 604 730 2600
The Canada Government Age in Place Check List and Guide is a good place to start to ensure you are ageing well in place and decide if it is right for you, your love ones, now and in the long term.