Written by Janet Helm, Realtor® and Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®) 

I hear this often, and I see it firsthand with my clients who are 55 and better. Many have already spent months, sometimes years, thoughtfully decluttering and letting go of “stuff.” By the time the holidays arrive, the idea of receiving more things is not always welcomed. What they value most is not what comes in a box, but what comes with time, attention, and connection.

The holidays bring a mix of emotions. For some older adults, this season is joyful, yet for others it isn’t. Many older adults don’t want or need more things. What people, older or not, value most is connection, laughter, and shared moments with friends and family. How we spend time with people during the holidays is just one way of showing care that can continue throughout the year.

The way we greet older adults matters. Asking how they are does not always provide a happy answer. Instead, try something light and welcoming, like “Nice to see you,” “I am glad we can spend a few minutes together,” or “I have been looking forward to seeing you.” Small shifts in the way we connect make visits feel cheerful and inviting.

A short visit is often the best gift of all. Twenty minutes of conversation can mean more than anything wrapped in a box. Bring a warm smile and perhaps a small treat. Homemade or store bought holiday cookies are always welcome. If they have a pet, a small toy can be a sweet addition. A precooked meal or something they can pop into the freezer is both practical and thoughtful. If you would rather visit than cook, consider sharing a cup of coffee or tea. You can sit together for a few minutes or go for a short stroll.

A holiday plant feels cheerful and seasonal, and if you choose to bring flowers, make sure they are already in a vase so they do not have to search for one. Family photos are treasures as well. If they have a framed photo of you that is a few years old, bring a current one. This simple update shows love and presence, and the real gift is the conversation that follows and the time you spend together.

In the end, older or not, we value connection, friendship, and shared moments. A visit, a laugh, a walk, a coffee together, all of these gestures show care during the holidays and reflect the relationships we celebrate all year long. These thoughtful gestures are the gifts that stay in the heart long after the season fades.

Written by Janet Helm, Realtor® and Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®) 

Many people believe the myth that there’s no rush to make decisions about their home and belongings, that everything can wait until the “right time” or a future move. In reality, waiting often leads to rushed choices, stress, and missed opportunities to preserve the things that truly matter. It’s what I call a crisis move.

Downsizing, or as most know I prefer to say, rightsizing, is often misunderstood. It is not about giving up the things you love or moving into a tiny, cramped space. Rightsizing is about simplifying and optimizing your home to better fit your lifestyle, whether you move or stay. It allows you to keep the items that matter and let go of what no longer serves you. Done thoughtfully, rightsizing creates freedom, reduces maintenance, and makes your home feel comfortable, safe, and suited to your needs.

The truth is, starting early gives you time to make thoughtful decisions at your own pace. By decluttering, gifting, and sorting through belongings now, when the time comes to move or make a change, the process feels lighter and more manageable. Rightsizing is not about rushing. It is about preparing in a way that preserves what you love and makes life simpler.

One of the often overlooked benefits of starting early is the ability to make intentional choices about your belongings. Items can be appraised, gifted to a charity that is meaningful to you, or placed somewhere they will be genuinely appreciated.

I recently visited clients and had the pleasure of meeting their daughter. As we toured the home together, she noticed a couple of old cookie tins and exclaimed, “Ahhh, those were Gramma’s, I remember those!” Her mother asked if she wanted them. I got to witness a beautiful moment between a daughter and her mother, all sparked by old cookie tins. In a crisis move, those tins may have been thrown out. It is rarely the monetary value of items that matters, but the memories and connections they carry.

Crisis moves often lead to decisions being made on someone else’s behalf, treasured items lost, or possessions sent to places where they are not valued. Rightsizing allows you to maintain control and dignity, ensuring that the things you care about are handled with care.

Starting early also creates opportunities to share meaningfully with family and friends. Gifting items gradually can create new memories and allow others to enjoy something special. Thoughtful preparation removes the pressure when lifestyle changes occur and transforms the process into an empowering experience rather than a stressful one.

In the end, rightsizing is not about loss. It is about making your home and life fit you better. Do not wait until a crisis forces decisions. Begin now, take your time, and focus on what truly matters. The process is manageable, meaningful, and even enjoyable when approached thoughtfully. 

Written by Janet Helm, Realtor® and Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®) 

The holidays are a time of connection, generosity, and goodwill. Unfortunately, they are also a time when fraud increases. Scammers know people are busy, distracted, and often more trusting during this season. Older adults can be especially targeted. Fraudsters are highly skilled, convincing, and persistent. The people behind them are professional, persuasive, and well rehearsed. Anyone can be caught off guard, regardless of age, education, or life experience. This is why awareness is so important.

There are many different types of scams circulating right now, from fake phone calls and emails to text messages that appear to come from banks, delivery companies, or even family members. The RCMP has an excellent resource that lists scams from A to Z and explains how they work. It is worth reviewing and sharing. They also explain why reporting scams is so important. Reporting helps authorities track patterns, warn others, and prevent future losses.

One of the biggest challenges with fraud is that many seniors do not report it. Some feel embarrassed. Others worry their family or friends will think they are no longer competent or capable of managing their affairs. This fear keeps many people silent.Being targeted by a scam does not mean someone has done anything wrong. It means a criminal used manipulation and pressure to deceive.

The BC Government has excellent resources as does the The BC Office of the Seniors Advocate. Both offer practical fraud prevention tips and guidance tailored specifically to older adults. These tools are designed to inform, not alarm, and to support independence and confidence.

Fraud prevention works best when it is shared. Talk about it with friends, family, neighbours, and community members. A quick conversation or shared link could prevent someone you care about from losing money or personal information.

As a Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®), looking out for older adults is part of what I do, whether it is housing decisions, planning ahead, or helping people stay informed and protected. Awareness is one more way we support independence and peace of mind.

And finally, a little tongue in cheek reminder about one of the most common scams targeting older adults. If Johnny, your grandson, is really in jail and urgently needs money wired right now, Johnny can hang out there for a few hours while you call family members and confirm the story. Real emergencies stand up to verification. Scams do not.

Staying informed, asking questions, and taking a pause before acting are powerful tools. This season and all year round, awareness is one of the best gifts we can share.  

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