What Do Moms Really Want on Mother’s Day?

Skip the slippers and the bathrobes. I mean, they’re nice, but is that really what moms want? As a Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®), I spend a lot of time talking to older adults and their families, and one thing I hear over and over is that they don’t want more stuff. So, what do moms really cherish? Your time.

It doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive. A simple stroll around the block. Coffee together. Lunch out. Or just a good old-fashioned visit at the kitchen table. Those moments of connection matter so much more than any gift.

Personally, from my sons, I still treasure a handmade card, flowers (even dandelions) picked from the garden, and a handmade card. Throw in burnt toast and runny eggs for breakfast and I’m in heaven!

So, this Mother’s Day, think about what really matters. Make a phone call. Plan a visit. Spend some time. That’s the stuff that lasts.

And if you do want to give a gift, consider something simple but meaningful. A plant—easy to display, no fussing for a vase, and it lasts longer. Or maybe some tech help, like a lesson on how to use ‘the Google’ as my dad requested or how to FaceTime with the grandkids. Practical, helpful, and thoughtful.

Wishing everyone a meaningful Mother’s Day. Whether you're a mom, remembering a mom, or spending time with someone who has been like a mom.