Downsizing Myth: There’s no Rush to Make Decisions. All is Fine Right Now.

Written by Janet Helm, Realtor® and Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®) 

Many people believe the myth that there’s no rush to make decisions about their home and belongings, that everything can wait until the “right time” or a future move. In reality, waiting often leads to rushed choices, stress, and missed opportunities to preserve the things that truly matter. It’s what I call a crisis move.

Downsizing, or as most know I prefer to say, rightsizing, is often misunderstood. It is not about giving up the things you love or moving into a tiny, cramped space. Rightsizing is about simplifying and optimizing your home to better fit your lifestyle, whether you move or stay. It allows you to keep the items that matter and let go of what no longer serves you. Done thoughtfully, rightsizing creates freedom, reduces maintenance, and makes your home feel comfortable, safe, and suited to your needs.

The truth is, starting early gives you time to make thoughtful decisions at your own pace. By decluttering, gifting, and sorting through belongings now, when the time comes to move or make a change, the process feels lighter and more manageable. Rightsizing is not about rushing. It is about preparing in a way that preserves what you love and makes life simpler.

One of the often overlooked benefits of starting early is the ability to make intentional choices about your belongings. Items can be appraised, gifted to a charity that is meaningful to you, or placed somewhere they will be genuinely appreciated.

I recently visited clients and had the pleasure of meeting their daughter. As we toured the home together, she noticed a couple of old cookie tins and exclaimed, “Ahhh, those were Gramma’s, I remember those!” Her mother asked if she wanted them. I got to witness a beautiful moment between a daughter and her mother, all sparked by old cookie tins. In a crisis move, those tins may have been thrown out. It is rarely the monetary value of items that matters, but the memories and connections they carry.

Crisis moves often lead to decisions being made on someone else’s behalf, treasured items lost, or possessions sent to places where they are not valued. Rightsizing allows you to maintain control and dignity, ensuring that the things you care about are handled with care.

Starting early also creates opportunities to share meaningfully with family and friends. Gifting items gradually can create new memories and allow others to enjoy something special. Thoughtful preparation removes the pressure when lifestyle changes occur and transforms the process into an empowering experience rather than a stressful one.

In the end, rightsizing is not about loss. It is about making your home and life fit you better. Do not wait until a crisis forces decisions. Begin now, take your time, and focus on what truly matters. The process is manageable, meaningful, and even enjoyable when approached thoughtfully.