As a Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®) guiding older adults navigate the often overwhelming process of downsizing or as I prefer to say, “ rightsizing,” is far more than just a transaction. It’s deeply personal, emotional, and sometimes, a bit scary. I have the privilege of walking alongside many wonderful people through this process, and one recent journey stands out—N and P.
I first met N and P at one of my open houses. We briefly discussed downsizing and how major a life change it can be, and that the decision to move, or not, is a huge decision to make and for some a significant hurdle to tackle. After some light-hearted conversations and a few chuckles, we arranged a time to meet at their home to continue the conversation.
Our meeting at their home was excellent. As we talked, I could sense they were grappling with the idea of leaving a house they had lived in for decades, filled with memories and comfort. Yet they knew making a proactive decision to move to a more user friendly home without stairs, easy access and walkability was being proactive instead of possibly down the road, a mandatory or what I call a crisis move, which is a completely different experience when one has to move instead of wants to move! True to my approach, I didn’t rush in with suggestions. Instead, I listened. I simply gave them space to share their thoughts, any concerns and answer their questions. I wanted to better understand their needs then provide them with information and options, and also to offer reassurance that I was there to help in whatever way they needed. I invited them to one of my free seminars on rightsizing- as felt the topics I share, would shed some light, which they attended and I believe did shed some light.
Over the year, I worked closely with N and P, guiding them at their pace. We began by tackling the daunting task of decluttering and paring down their belongings, which they preferred to do on their own instead of hiring someone, which is an option as well. Paring down belongings is often one of the most difficult steps for anyone, but especially for those who’ve lived in their homes for many years. We discussed options, weighed the pros and cons of selling first versus buying first, and I explained the potential impacts of each decision. Ultimately, they chose to buy first, then sell—an option that felt right for them. It was their decision. Together we found their new home! The home is in the same neighbourhood, walking distance to their favourite coffee shop, their library, and the familiar mountain views. It was a home they could grow into in this next chapter of their lives, one that offered more accessibility and comfort. Next was to prepare their existing home to sell and which it did! A young family is grateful for their new home and backyard access to a park and will now create their own memories there! For me there are few things more rewarding than helping people make one of the most important decisions of their lives—especially when it’s done with patience, empathy, and trust.
I received a lovely Google Review from N and P. Reading their words of appreciation was a heartfelt reminder of why I do what I do. Their kind review spoke of how grateful they were for my support, my patience, and my dedication to making their rightsizing journey as smooth as possible. It was an emotional reminder of how deeply rewarding it is to be a trusted guide for others during such a significant transition.
Rightsizing is a journey and isn’t just about finding a new home—it’s about helping people navigate change in a way that honours their needs, their emotions, and their future. It’s about understanding that this process is not just transactional, but deeply personal.
For N and P, the journey was one that ultimately led them to a new chapter of life, in a home that fit their needs and gave them peace of mind. It wasn’t always easy, but together, we made it easier. They made decisions on their terms and timeline not anyone else’s.
If you or someone you know is considering rightsizing, please reach out. I’d be honoured to help guide you, just as I did with N and P—one step at a time, with care, and expertise and the goal of selling the home for top dollar and finding the right home for the next phase of life.